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GM Books: My Year of Rest and Relaxation

Dec 12, 2018


I first saw this book making its rounds on Instagram and wasn't too impressed by the cover art, because obviously I judge books by the cover. I then came across it at the thrift store for .99 cents and thought, eh, why not? I am so glad I did pick it up because although this story is a little dark, it is also funny and relatable at times. 


The story follows a twenty something year old woman who plans to basically sleep away a year of her life in order to get it together. Accompanying her is an on again, off again boyfriend with fuckboy tendencies, a best friend who is more of a frenemy and an eccentric psychiatrist who unknowingly enables this year of rest by prescribing her a ton of drugs. I know the story sounds weird already and I doubt I would have picked up this book up based on the synopsis alone but the writing is great and the story is really one of extreme depression. If you have ever been depressed then you would know that a year of sleep (whether drug induced or otherwise) sounds like a bomb ass idea, when you've hit that low point. 

I recommend this book to anyone who has been depressed in the past because while it does kind of make light of a very serious condition, it brought that feeling of "well my life isn't so bad after all"and it also made me laugh out loud several times. Without giving anything away, the ending was refreshing in my opinion and once you start the book, you will want to see how things end for the main character. 

Shopping for Vintage Designer Handbags

Dec 10, 2018


Some time last year, I started a new obsession of mine: Searching for Vintage Designer Handbags. Those late night searches on Etsy, eBay and Poshmark quickly turned into actual purchases. Quickly may be the wrong word, as I had to do extensive research on each item before handing over any money. Buying things second hand, especially online, may deter some people because as we all know there are so many scammers out there, you never know what you might end up getting. I am happy to report that each bag I purchased turned out to be 100 % authentic and exactly what I wanted. 

Here are a few of my tips when shopping for Vintage Designer handbags:

1. Research! Before buying anything used online or in person, you should research the product to familiarize  yourself with all its details. You should also research the seller you are buying from. Whether it be a person on eBay you are buying directly from or a company such as Fashionphile, look at other buyer reviews and ask the seller questions directly about the bag before buying and also inquire about return policies. 

2. Price the bag on multiple sites. I know when shopping on sites like Etsy and eBay, you will come across several options for the bag you're looking for. Of course price will vary depending on the condition of the bag and how available the bag is in general. It's important to see how much the bag is worth (retail if it is still being produced) and how much other people are selling it for. Knowing this information will help to make sure you don't spend too much on an item.

3. Look up how to authenticate or spot fake handbags. Different brands have different ways of marking their products for authentication. For example, Louis Vuitton uses date codes while Fendi uses serial numbers. However, be aware that serial numbers and date codes can be faked also. So read the blogs and articles dedicated to spotting fake/replica handbags. There are tons of them out there and they have good information that will keep you from wasting your money.

4. Do not sleep on your neighborhood thrift stores! I have found several high end vintage handbags, including Coach and Dooney & Burke, at my local thrift stores for under $20. Fakes can still be a problem here, however seeing the material and hardware up close and personal should help you determine weather the bag is authentic or not.

Please comment and let me know where you guys are finding some vintage gems!

I Switched to Organic Tampons

Dec 1, 2018

Like most people, the older I get the more conscious I am of what I put in my body. Because when you know better you do better, right? While that may not always be the case, as I do enjoy a big mac from Mcdonalds every now and again (I know, don't judge me), I do my best to make better choices in the areas of my life and health that really matter to me. Which is why I started using Cora Organic Tampons.


 I have been using tampons since the start of my period many years ago. I have heard all about the possibility of Toxic Shock Syndrome and all the harmful chemicals that are used to make tampons and have been looking for a better alternative ever since. While organic tampons can still cause TSS if used improperly, I still feel so much better about inserting something into my body that only has one natural ingredient and no chemicals. 

I have been using the Cora Organic Tampons for about four months now and I have no complaints. The first time I used them, I did feel like I cramped a little more than usual. My first thought was to go pack to my beloved Tampax Pearl Tampons, but being that I just spent $12 on two box of tampons ( and I hate to waste stuff), I used them again during my next period and low and behold there was no more unusual cramping and hasn't been since the first use. I want to say maybe my body was getting used to the 'no chemicals', which I know sounds weird but how our bodies respond to different things can be pretty weird. So ladies pay attention to your body and what it might be telling you, especially when trying new products!

The Cora Organic Tampons provide me with the same protection and comfortability as the Tampax Pearl Tampons I have been using for years. Made with 100 % certified organic cotton and free of GMO's, pesticides, fragrances and all the other harmful chemicals that are found in most name brand tampons, I feel like I am giving my body the treatment it has always deserved!

What's in my Zara Bucket Bag?

Apr 23, 2018


LV Sarah Wallet

I can remember being 14 or 15 years old and my mother begging me to wear shoes instead of sneakers and to carry a purse (or pocketbook as she called it lol) because I was becoming a young lady and that's what young ladies do and blah blah... Fast forward 15 years and not only am I wearing purses but the joy a new cute purse brings me is indescribable...Ok Im being a little dramatic but nonetheless, I love a new bag! Still can't get me out of my sneakers though (sorry mommy). I love to see what people carry in their bags so I decided to post a whats in my bag of my own featuring my essential items. I literally keep (a variation) of these products in my bag every single day! Where ever I go, they go. 

This is a bucket bag from Zara, that I bought in March in store but it is still available online if you want to purchase it here! I absolutely love this bag because its big on the inside, so it holds my notebook and whatever book I am reading at the moment, along with all my other little items pictured. The color of the bag and the gold hardware gives it a more put-together look that I love and it goes with almost everything, I promise. 

In my bag at the moment I have a Sephora makeup bag, gifted to me from my Aunty, I have the book I am currently reading, Giovanni's Room by James Baldwin and my notebook, which is a faux leather journal I got from Marshall's. Im currently using my LV Sarah Wallet, which was a gift to myself for my 30th birthday. Of course I have some everyday beauty essentials: Rosy lips from Vaseline, Smith's Rose Bud Salve (I use this on my hands because they are so dry and this always does the trick), Elizabeth and James Perfume roller ball in Nirvana Black, and my Lorac lipgloss in Secret Agent. I also carry this little cat pouch full pens, pencils, highlighters and markers, my car keys and a little LV coin pouch that I keep important business cards and gift cards in. Leave me a comment and let me know what are your must have items that you carry around everyday. Thanks for reading!

Zara Bucket Bag






GM Books: This Will Be My Undoing by Morgan Jerkins

Apr 5, 2018


Writing this post now, I cannot remember how I came across this book or who suggested it to me. I want to say I saw it on a book list of must read African American women writers. Nonetheless I am so thankful that I did find it or that it found me. This book chronicles Morgan Jerkins life from childhood to womanhood in a series of essays, stories and even letters (only one addressed to Michelle Obama) in a voice similar to my own, as a black woman living and trying to create in today's society. When I think about this book and what I want to write about it, I think about a meme I have seen and have probably reposted before that says something like 'shout out to all the girls trying to love themselves in a world that is constantly telling them not to'...something like that. I feel like that sentence IS basically this book, it's just the book speaks for black and brown girls specifically. As we are the ones who are constantly made to feel as if our physical attributes are not good enough and our abrasive personalities (by this I mean the angry black woman stereotype) are "too much" for lack of a better term. Not to take away from the bigger picture that Jerkins expresses so well in her book, but if I had to sum it up, that sentence would be the start.

  I do not want to give a summary or synopsis of the book because I would do it no justice and I think this is something that deserves a read from everyone, whether you are male or female, black or white, consider yourself a feminist or don't. It is so important to hear stories like that of Jerkins so that we are more aware of the things that other people experience, I think then empathy wouldn't be scarce, especially in times like now when we need it the most. This book made me laugh out loud, it made me sad, it made me proud and it made me think about my own life and the things I have experienced and how they have shaped me. Any book (which should be most in my opinion) that inspires retrospection is worth the read. If I could have you read just one thing that I have suggested here on my blog it would be this one. If you have read it and loved it as much as I did leave a comment, let's talk! (And if you though the book is trash let's talk about that too!)

CLAIM IT in 2018

Jan 13, 2018



I think everyone can agree that 2017 was a really weird year. There were so many ups and downs that I think my year kind of leveled out to be an okay one. I traveled out the country for the first time, got a new baby (my dog Lola)  and just accomplished so many things that were only a thought in 2016, this blog being one of them. I am so grateful for the things that 2017 has taught and I am soooo looking forward to all the wonderful things I know 2018 has in store. With that being said I am aiming HIGH this year. I have so many goals and ideas that I need to see come to life this year and I would like to share them with you all.

If you’re reading this than first let me thank you for supporting me, taking the time out of your day to read my words. Even if you never visit my site again I am grateful for every view I get. I’m going to be honest and tell you guys that I’m usually not an advocate for telling people my “business”, I  am very much a person who stays quiet about what I have going on and won’t say anything until it actually happens but there is power in sharing your dreams with others and the universe. You have to put it out there to get it back and that’s what I’m doing with this post. Claiming all these things WILL happen for me. Here are just a few of my main goals for the year of 2018:

1. Open Golden Moment Boutique - I’ve had this business registered for a year now and have been researching and planning now it’s tine to take action. I won’t tell you guys what kind of store it is just yet though, a little hint: it’s not clothing..

2. Start and maintain a consistent work out routine - this will consist mostly of yoga and Pilates because honestly I hate working out but loooooove yoga.

3. Finish at least 2 journalism internships - I am currently 2 months into my first internship working as a content editor for a startup company and want to finish out another internship before the year is out. I’m trying to get all the experience I can before graduating!

I hope this post inspires you to claim whatever it is you want for your self not only for this year but throughout your life. If you believe you can have you will!


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